Through my eyes...

From my vantage point I firmly believe, love lays the foundation in all our lives. From love inherits, heaps of emotions and the direction in which we penetrate through the varied emotions, builds our character. I classify love as Forced and Free Will.

Forced Love:

Forced relationships are predestined to forge ahead in life. It entails Parents, Children, Siblings, Relations. Forced relationships remain intact, but few exceptions include,

Parent's are deserted by shifting to old-age home. A child is neglected and left in an orphanage. A child can be legally parted from the parents, through the emancipation process, once the child attains 14-16 years of age.

Free Will Love:

Free Will relationships are opted by every individuals to boost the life. It entails friends and life partners. I call free will as dynamic, 

In case of love relationships, break up passes off, friends diminishes when pull up stakes, Marriages cut off through a divorce, when the couples conclude the relationship.

But regardless of all this dynamic state, therein people under Free Will, who keep up the pace over the length and breadth of life.

Relationships within the bounds of Forced love:

Most virtuous forms of love in the world are Mother's love, who sow the seeds of love, far in advance spotting the face of the kid. She grows stronger, to welcome the kid into the world and give birth to an emotion known as 'Endurance'. 

When a father enamors the kid, he lifts the kid higher over his shoulder, to give a picture of how the world appears to be and give birth to an emotion known as 'Protection'.

If a kid loves something, and if the parent's oppose it, it gives birth to emotions known as 'Sad', 'Fear' and 'Lie'. The kid loves something and hanker after it, seeing that the parent's take a dim view of it, the kid starts to feel the 'sadness', but by the virtue of love towards something, the kid is pushed to 'lie' to parent's,  'fearing' of the consequences, when parent's came to know about the truth.

When the adult child loves the parent, it gives birth to an emotion known as 'Attention'. But when the adult child falls in love with the money, rather than the parent's, it gives birth to an emotion known as 'Stingy'.

Siblings are treasures from parents to bring an added value to our lives. When sibling love blossoms, it gives birth to an emotion known as 'Responsible'. But when sibling's tread behind loving money, it gives birth to an emotion known as 'Greed'.

The blood, which bind us together under a single roof are relations. When relations love each other, it gives birth to emotions known as 'Strength' and 'Support'. When relations sidestep loving each other, it gives birth to an emotion known as 'Jealous'.

Relationships within the bounds of Free-will:

Discrete by blood, but conjoint by certainty are friends, with whom we share our happiness, our problems, our secrets. It gives birth to an emotion known as 'Outspoken'. Rightly said with a proverb,

"A friend in need, is a friend indeed"

When the soul of a guy and a girl are enchanted by love, it gives birth to an emotion known as 'Trust', which provides a route to rest on the shoulders, during high and low of life. But if a guy or a girl takes a fancy on love, over physique or money, it gives birth to an emotion as 'Attraction', 'Infatuation'

How do we get smitten by infatuation?

Most prevailing factor, catalyses every individual under Free Will is 'Hormonal Imbalance'. The lifestyle we put on ourselves, the food we consume, the circumstances we live upon, the social networking, which drives us, the things our eyes take a catch. Based on these factors, the human mind tends to muddle up and rise to the bait with the hormones.

Impacts of Hormonal-Imbalance:

By nature, some individuals have superfluous hormonal feelings, and some have minimal feelings. It draws a distinction between every individual, when people with superfluous hormonal feelings, restrict responding to hormones, the human body became susceptible to 'Hormonal-Imbalance'. In this case, every individual hit upon different approaches, to address these hormonal behaviour, which gives birth to an emotion known as 'lust', 'cheating'.

When an individual suffering from 'Hormonal-Imbalance', control his/her feelings, it gives birth to emotions known as 'Irritation', 'Stress' and attack the human body with miscellaneous diseases.

So let's see how 'Forced' and 'Free-will' love crosses in our life:

When an individual loves his/her parent's and love of life (to be life-partner) equally, it leads to a next step known as marriage and they turned out to be the Life-Partner for the rest of the life. But there are few exceptions to it,

When the parent's love falls on caste/status rather than the son/daughter's happiness, it gives birth to an emotion known as 'Pride'. In this case, the parent's become 'Self-Centered' considering the family priorities, and rejects the love of another family's son/daughter.

When an adult is in head over heels in love, and when parent's disagree with it, the adult holds the hands of his love.

If an adult loves his/her love and parent's equally, and when parent's disagree with it, the adult loses the sight of 'marriage' in life. The adult is not equipped to marry his/her love without the parent's consent, similarly finds it hard to replace the love of life.

People give 1000 reasons to stay apart, but there always exists one reason, to stick together. I call that as 'Love'. In a nutshell, Love exists above everything!!!